What is your approach to weddings?
I work with couples to make their ceremony unique and reflective of their values and vision. I like to incorporate personalized elements, participation by family and friends and explanations of traditional elements of the ceremony. As a rabbi at a Jewish humanist congregation with a background in the Reform movement, I am comfortable officiating at both secular and more traditional ceremonies. My goal is to create a ceremony that has meaning for you.
Do you officiate at interfaith weddings?
Yes! I joyfully officiate at interfaith weddings. While I don't co-officiate with clergy from other faiths, I will incorporate non-theistic elements from other traditions into the ceremony, for example a unity candle.
Do you officiate at ceremonies for lgbtq couples?
Yes! I consider myself an LGBTQ ally and am happy to work with any loving couple on their wedding day.
How often would we meet before the wedding?
Typically, I meet 2 to 4 times with couples in preparation for the wedding. While I prefer to meet in person, I understand that many couples live out-of-state or have very intense work or school schedules. I am happy to arrange Skype appointments in those cases.
How much is your honorarium for a wedding?
My honorarium is $950 for weddings in the Washington, DC, metro area. If you are planning a ceremony outside the DC Metro area, please contact me to discuss the honorarium. My congregation Beth Chai in Bethesda extends one free year of membership to couples who I marry. I like to keep in touch with wedding couples after the ceremony and truly enjoy watching them build their lives together.